A new boy in our life...

Every now and again over the past few years, I've wondered about the possiblity of having a boy, or slave, or pup as part of our lives.  After nearly 18 years together, Drew and I are pretty comfortable with where we are in each others' lives, and with playing

with others, together or separately.

But until recently the right guy hasn't appeared, and with our business and lack of free time 80% of the year, we haven't really gone looking actively either.  So it seemed that it

probably would just stay one of those things I wondered about!

However, at our annual summer rubber party this year, one of our guests from Canada bought along a new rubber boy from Washington.   To start with, they both arrived on 

sportbikes!  (bing!  one point! )  In full one piece leathers that matched the bikes!  (bing, two points! )  And then he turned out to be a good, intelligent and funny guy, who's not afraid to ask questions about life or explore the answers.  We played at the party and had a great time, and I was pretty sure I would see him again.

After the party we started chatting on recon and one of the things we talked about was his interests in chastity training.  For a few weeks we went back and forth, and then I made him the offer of being his chastity top for an indeterminate period of time.  He was going through a tough personal issue at the time, that wasn't going to last long, but was making life a little challenging and I thought that a bit of chastity play, along with rewards every 2-3 weeks would help him through it.   He agreed and we set up a first return visit, with him arriving by train in Tacoma and me fetching him from there.  Prior to that first

visit though, we were chatting by text, and talking about our favorite xtube videos...its' one of those things I do, because it sometimes gives good insight into what makes a guys dick hard.  Lo and behold, some of his favorites were centered around hardcore throat fucking...gag the fag style...lots of throat slime, drool, being taken to the edge of what 

you can handle.  As I have developed some very definite interests around that in the past couple years, mostly until then from a bottom point of view, I was intrigued.  We chatted quite a bit more about that, and decided that would be a big part of our first weekend

scenes.

The weekend arrived, and I picked him up in Tacoma.  WE had some really good scenes that weekend, and a lot of fun.  We definitly explored our mutual throat fucking fantasies...he from the bottom, and me finally, from the top.  Woof!  We were both left wanting more by the end of the weekend.  The newest photos are some of the scenes from that weekend.  At the end of the weekend on Monday, we had the first chastity lock up, and the CB3000 was locked securely on.  We agreed for a two week period, with some duties to be performed by him, which included light daily workouts, some plug 

training, and reports to me each night on those activities.  In addition, he had stated that he would like to quit smoking, so we agreed to start whittling the number of cigarettes he had each day, down week by week.  We agreed on certain punishments for infractions, which included heavy punishment throat fucking of 2-3 minutes for each infraction, and added things like a dental gag, large cock sheath on me or Drew, or electro during it if he had too many infractions.  To say the least, it's helped keep things interesting over what is now going on 2 months for him of lock up, with 2-3 week periods between his visits.

Over the next few months, I'll add photos of various scenes, and updates as we go forward!  Enjoy, and feel free to comment!

Who knew?! Happy Anniversary to us!

Today marks the 17th Anniversary of the day Drew and I met!   Pretty amazing to us both that it's been that long.....getting close to a third of my life and over that of his.   Does seem amazing when you think in those terms.   Some of the boys at various parties we've been to lately at Rubberasylums, Sparkys' and Jerry's were just starting elementary school when we met at the Cuff...yikes!    Maybe you want to know how it happened ?  ( Maybe you dont' care and only hope I post some new pics soon? )  Whichever...here it is.
I'd been dating around, mostly trying to find a nice, kinky boy I could take home to Mom some day, who was fun in the playroom and also had enough in common with me that I could spend my life with him.  Our
mutual friend Jerry, knew Drew from previous years in Seattle when he'd played with him and other mutual
friends of ours.  Drew had been living in California with his first partner of 7 years or so, who had died earlier
in the year.  Eventually he made his way back to Seattle, and was living down near Pike place market in a top floor apartment overlooking the waterfront.   Jerry knew this and thought I should meet him, so at some
point one week he said..."hey there's a guy who just moved back to Seattle you might get along with...why don't you come up to the Cuff Saturday night and I'll introduce you? "   So, Saturday rolled around and I put on my ( as Andrew would tell you ) crappy leather jacket and drove up to the Cuff from my little cottage in
Rainier valley.
I walked in and Jerry was towards the back by the pinball machines, which were near the coat check then.
I got a beer and chatted a moment, while eyeing a boy in full white, blue and black race leathers who was playing one of the machines.   "Thats' Andrew" Jerry told me.  " Just make sure you have a gag handy...you'll need it, or you'll have him tied up and he'll start wondering about when the last time the oil was changed in his car in the middle of a scene"  Hummmm.  Really?  ( in retrospect...yes.  really )  Anyway, we met...he looked a little geeky back then, with gold wire rim glasses (without which he was fairly blind as it turned out)
started chatting, and the rest as they say, is history.    Yes, we did play the first night.  Then I don't think we spent more than 2-3 nights apart until he moved in with me 8 months later when the lease on his apartment
was up for renewal.  Very, very not in character for me, but it's how it worked out!
So...how do two very kinky guys, ten years apart in age, and with some very different outlooks on life get to
17 years?   Patience, compromise, enough things in common to keep us together, and the desire to stay together.    Despite our differences in the way we interact with people...I'm much more quiet and introspective overall, we do have a lot in common and have developed even more as we've gone on...which is probably natural in any long term couple.
We also still have really fun scenes, play and sex.   It's changed over the years...he's not quite as passive, I'm not quite as aggressive, theres' much more give and take than early on in our relationship, but amazingly enough we still play once or twice a week in some form.  It may be short and sweet, or it may be more involved but it still happens after 17 years....and that's awesome!   Happy Anniversary Spike!  I love you.

It's about time.....

I've realized I've been really bad about keeping up here, and since a few guys have asked me to post some new stuff, I decided it's time.  Winters' a lot easier for me than summer, due to our business and schedule, so I'll try to keep up with some new postings for the next 3-4 months at least.   We've had some fun times at local play parties lately that were hosted by Jerry, Tony, Mikey and Sparky, plus have had a few friends to visit here too, so mostly for now will just post some of the play scenes from the last 4-5 months.  A couple of those feature the FatBoy cock sheath, which is one of the fun new toys we've gotten in the last year...it's not only hot for the bottom, but it's hot for the one wearing it, especially if you lube it up inside!  Highly recommend it for you pigs out there

Cheers

Rest in Peace, Jim ( aka Maurice) Stewart, Mr. Fetters

We were saddened to learn this week of the passing of Jim Stewart, who started Fetters, UK many decades ago.   We had met Jim at least a decade ago here in Seattle, and had since had him visit our homes both on
Beacon Hill and at the Bondage Lodge.   We'd also had the great pleasure of staying with him the last two or
three visits to the UK, when he still lived in London.
He was, the consumate English gentleman, albeit with a bit of a kinky bent.   We had many great conversations, while sitting in his living room sipping morning press pot coffee, or while relaxing over a glass ( or two ) of wine at a pub, his house or a restaurant.   When we visited, we stayed in his old playspace at the top of the house, and tried some of the gear that was there, some of which were prototypes for the original Fetters gear, such as the double face hood, restraints etc. his fold down bondage bed and more.
Jim joined us as well for two of the Harry Potter movies during the premier week at the Picadilly Circus theatre that hosted the movies' premiers.  It was great fun for him as he'd known some of the older actors during his days at BBC, and would giggle to see them in the movies playing witches, or wizards.  He also
introduced us to many of his London friends, and occasionally those who lived outside of London, as well as visiting some of the gardens around London with us.
He loved to talk about bondage, bondage scenes, kink, gear and the history of it all, as well as what was
going on with it these days.   His interests spanned many aspects of it, but always he loved stories of guys like firemen, military, police, working/trades guys most of all.  At all times he made us feel welcome and that he was happy to have us visit and be a part of his life.
I'll miss him very much....his ready smile, British charm and love of life.   Cheers Jim.

Some things are worth waiting for!

Some of you out there know that we used to have a webpage way back when.  We had quite a few guys who followed it, and we met some from around the US and from outside of it over the years.   Some we never met but occasionally kept in touch with, or have had contact with since on Recon, or Gear Fetish, etc.
Recently one of those guys contacted me, who I'd talked to over the course of the past 10 years or so.  We'd never gotten together, partially because he lived quite far away, and for other reasons.   Since then he'd moved closer to us...still not in our state, but closer.   He finally had the time, and money to come visit and let me know he was still interested.  We chatted a bit over a few weeks, and finally set a date for him to come and spend two days here.   In the end, it turned out to be worth waiting for, both for him and for us, as we had a great time with him, had some fun scenes, and also started what will probably be a good friendship.
Because he asked me to keep some things private, I'm not mentioning names, where he's from, or showing any face photos, but thought that the whole experience made for a good story, and had some good photos as well.
I instructed him to arrive at our business on Saturday afternoon just before we closed, which he did.  We talked very briefly, then I took him into an office and had him strip.  He was a bit nervous, understandably, but did as he was told.   I left him in his open crotch Mr. S. surfsuit, and then put him into our very heavy duty Mr. S padded straightjacket, and a pair of Drew's AGV bike leathers' pants from his two piece set.   They fit really well, and looked great with the straightjacket.  I added a pair of SIDI street boots, and our David Barnes lined hood, with a spandex open mouth hood under it.   He looked HOT, and got immediately hard.
We closed up shop and pulled the Explorer up in front of the garage door to that building, which when the coast was clear, I opened and Drew loaded him into the back seat.   Mind you, were' on a busy main arterial, so we worked fast, as it was broad daylight!
We didn't tell him where we were going, but had been invited to a party at RubberAsylum's place, and that's where we headed.  Because he was sitting right in back of me, I could massage his leg, thighs and crotch a bit as we drove, and we was pretty hard all the way up.   We parked in front, and took him into the party, which had about 20 people or so there already.  I hadn't told anyone I was doing this, so it was a little surprising to have me lead a hooded, straightjacketed guy in, but after all , it was a kink party, so nobody cared!  I got him settled with someone to look after him and bought in the gear bags.  I could tell he was nervous, and not too comfortable, but since he was hooded and in bondage, there wasn't much he could do, and I was careful to make sure he remained anonymous throughout the evening.  After I got things together, I took him down to the playroom for his first scene of the weekend.  I forgot to mention here that I had also put a Mr. Butt bead electrode in him and locked the punisher silicone chastity device on him before bringing him up AND that he hadn't cum in 7 days!   The pics adjacent are some from the shop and from his first scene, in which I edged him mercilessly for about an hour, without letting him cum before putting him back in the chastity device and taking him home for his next 2 days of adventures

Staycations are FUN!

So...most of those who know us well, know that the last few years have been a little lean, as our business is pretty directly affected by the housing market, construction and real estate.   Not terrible, but not overall great.
That's led to us not being able to do any events like MAL, MIR, Dore, Folsom, IML, etc.  We also really hadn't had a plain old vacation since we came back from Australia and New Zealand in January 2009.
SO, with our spring season upcoming rapidly and not much money in the bank, we were faced with the choice of either going into another full busy season with  no break ( again ) OR taking a staycation!   Luckily, we happen to live in an amazingly comfy and wonderful house, with great views, lots of privacy, a fun playroom, lots of gear and good friends nearby.  SO, for me at least the prospect of a stay-cation sounded pretty good...Drew was a little less enthusiastic...well, can't we go to the beach for 2-3 days, and go to my parents' and etc. etc.  No big surprise, but not what I had in mind, as I pretty much always drive, therefore, 4-600 mile car trips, packing the car, shopping, blah  blah blah, only to get to a place where we're looking at the ocean instead of Puget Sound.
So, we agreed to actually stay home for the big part of the week, relax, do some projects that have been on the agenda for awhile, and if we wanted to do something, spend some time with friends in Seattle.  It turned out to be not only relaxing, but productive, fun and fairly inexpensive!    We both got some things done..me on the french door project, fixing Andrew's toilet, the refrigerator light that's never worked and a few other things.   Drew worked on his "hut" he's building halfway down the property...kind of a camper cabin for future use, and did a few other small projects.  I even cleaned up the playroom a bit!  whoo hoo!
But we did find time to play some too.   Monday was a fantastic day weather wise...mid-50's, sunny and clear.  So we took the CBR's and rode down to Gig Harbor to our favorite cafe/tavern on the water and had lunch.  It's a nice 20 mile ride, with some fun twisties mid way, plus just good 2 lane country roads all the way.
We also celebrated our 16th anniversary and went to our friends Mitch ( and Kevin and Andrew ) Seattle's out in Woodinville, after visiting the wonderful Tacoma Glass Museum where they had 2 really incredible exhibits on.   Kevin made us a great dinner (as always! ) and then we hopped in the car and drove to Seattle to the 5th Ave. Theatre for their new production of Oklahoma.  Total fun..great cast, Rogers and Hammerstein, strong singers...just a fun evening, with desert and champagne back at their house!   Really nice way to celebrate 16 years with Drew, and our good friends.
Of course, there was OTHER play...what you all want to know about anyway, face it!  I did some repairs to  the milker and attachments, and Drew got a ride on that, along with some BC/rebreather play and a little ball beating at the end.  Last night I had been playing with the Eros Tek remote and had it hooked up to a metal cockring, and the dick head/cock cap electrode, which I then forced into a jock cup and compression shorts, so it really had good  contact...ALL on the head of my dick.  After a pretty fun face fuck session, with Drew in MX gear, and me in one of my one piece race suits, which resulted in Drew's getting off, but not me, we settled on the bed, and just did some endurance play with the electro while we made out.  THAT was fun! I love shit like that...romance and torment at the same time!  Its' like life LOL.
Today was just getting ready to go back to our real world....grocery shopping, bank, laundry, house cleaning...the usual.  But we both feel a lot better, and more relaxed!  A good staycation was had by all!

Big news for Washington State!

Drew just told me that they announced today that the WA state senate has enough ( 25 ) yes votes to pass gay marriage when they bring it to a vote.  Since the Guv has has already said she will support it and sign it into law if it passes, it looks like we might be become the 8th ( I think it's 7 now ) state to legalize gay marriage!  Whoo hoo!   He also just told me he thinks we should GET married if they do...which was sort of a romantic event in my life...he didn't exactly propose, but its' close enough LOL.  Gee...after only 16 years ( in 3 weeks ) of dating, co-habitating, and loving, we're engaged!  What's even nicer about the whole thing is that its' a senator from our
own county who said she has to support it and became the 25th!  Yay Kitsap!